If you like a flower
you will pluck it but if you love it you will shower it"
"To love someone
is nothing, being loved is something, to love and being loved is
everything."
When we commit to a
person mentally it is an assurance that the person is with us all the way, all
through our life. We love and also are loved back and this is a wonderful
feeling! I think by now you would have speculated about the subject I will
discuss .. Yes, it is lifelong commitment, the major trait in love. People use
this as a reason to smoothly reject the proposal so as not to hurt them. I
personally feel that it is bad practice to do so. It is far better to tell them
the actual reason why you are rejecting them. Every coin has two sides, in the
same way lifelong commitment has also pros and cons..
Let’s look into the
pros of this coin…
We become mentally
matured and their responsibility is ours is what we feel. We develop intense
feelings for them when we are completely in love. It is a Godly feeling when
you know that someone is there for you.
We tend to think
independently as we a little more open minded. Also, you have created your
small world in this big world!! We feel safe in their presence and just the
thought of theirs gives us immense strength.
Risks
With great power comes
great responsibility and with great relations come great expectations. This is
utterly inevitable. When we are in a relation, it is obvious that our partner
thinks that we do something for them. And by any chance we don’t… I don’t think
an explanation is needed here. This is what we say living up to the
expectations. You don’t fulfill what they want and you will have no peace of
mind. This doesn’t mean your partner will boil you in hot oil like in hell.
Just a feeling that you couldn’t be the reason for a smile on their face.
Relations take wrong
directions if one starts getting possessive about the other. If you are in
love, there should be entire trust in each other and the partner should keep up
the trust. In this process, a person who is committed forgets that their
partners have a personal life of their own like friends, family, professional
front, etc. This creates glitches in the relation and might have to see an end.
The amount of effort we
put on choosing a person should also be used in maintaining relation with that
person! "True love never compromises, it only defers itself". So, we
truly hope you find your true love, have a lifelong commitment with them taking
care if the cons discussed above. It is a wonderful feeling when we know that
there is a person for us who loves all of what we are and are ready to do
anything for us in future. So float in that feeling of love!!
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