The two
things that may definitely strike in your minds is:
1. Is it whether a comparison between
love and friendship?
Or
2. Is it to mention about the very
slightest difference between love and friendship?
The fact is that
the two points actually agree on each other. Why can’t two people of opposite
genders become close friends?!!! Why do most of elders or the society restrict
their children on being close to their friends?!!(Opposite gender..) First of
all a person has to clearly understand and analyze the shortest line between
love and friendship...
Coming to
friendship, there is no element of compromise,
possessiveness, ego ,priorities as compared to love.
In my point
of view friendship is showering care, concern on anyone whereas love is tendering care, concern on
only one!!!
The
slightest difference between the two is attraction i.e knowing their real self
and wanting to know them more . Nowadays the major reason behind rejection of
proposals is that they are scared of
maintaining a true relationship. People have fixed in their minds that true
relationship means giving importance to a particular person, spending whole day
with them.
Nowadays the
trend is that for example if a guy is close to a girl and suddenly if he
proposes her, the general answer given by girls is that “I don’t have any such
feelings on you ,I have always seen you as a good friend”.
Keeping in
mind the present TREND I feel that love is something that happens when you feel
comfortable with the opposite gender doing all the random stuff! It is usually
the situation which leads us to realize that we are in love, and these days
friends play main part in it…in pushing us to that feeling.
As per me,
it is just an extreme end of like that is known as love and in friendship we
actually don’t bother much what our friends think if we do a particular action,
but in love we need to respect our love’s feelings and ct accordingly.
I would say
that in relation like love we will not have as much freedom as we have in
friendship.
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