Impact of First Crush

"You will get the fullest value of joy when you have got someone to divide it with."

We look for a perfect match of our life (kind of 'Made for Each Other' type), at one or the other stage of our life. Some may look for such a person too early and some very lately. It may be at any instance of our life, we will search for that person to bid a warm welcome into our life. But how will we come to know that this is the person I am looking for. Will there be a scale to measure that feeling? Not exactly a scale but every person will have a boy/girl in their life as a benchmark. Yes, he/she was your first crush.

First crush is soo special feeling in your life. It's free from malice and manipulations, an intense feeling of intimacy, so pure and innocent. The blissful feeling of first crush can never be replicated because the innocence is lost as we progress to other relationships, and this feeling cannot be translated in them. This makes our first crush very much special.

Having a crush is like having a little rock stuck in your shoe and you stop walking and shake it out and you're pretty sure it's gone but then a half hour later you feel it under your toe and you're like, 'Oh no!'.

From jealousy to possesiveness, ego to anger, carefulness to extreme dependence, it is the first time when a guy or girl realizes how matters of heart can bring you down to your knees. You will be exposed to your insecured feelings for the first time. The very idea of being atracted to someone makes you overwhemed. It's a feeling felt by everyone at one point or the other. If someone says NO, Don't Care! There are just bluffing.

There are no complications and no expectations when that feeling is blooming. Because you too are not sure how far can it go. You will feel like sharing everything with them, you always want to get bored by their conversation, you will feel like hanging out with them. This perfectness creates memories that are hard to forget. No matter how old you grow, how mature you become, you will always look for that perfect feeling. The sheer excitement that you felt will be carved in your mind as the sweetest moments in your life. It was the first life-time roller coaster ride with ups and downs which you will cherish long. Whenever you dive into another realtionship, you will definitely fell that it must be sweeter, perfect, stronger, adorable than your first crush.

The first crush may fade off within a short time. But whenever you think about or see that person, even after ages, you'll find those butterflies returning to your stomach. That's the impact a first crush has.

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